Words are Powerful

Everytime I hear those three words, it calls me to action. In my present position in life, I don't feel too powerful. So, writing is my super power. I still wake up with the thought of sharing what I am thinking. Not too sure, if I will be like this forever. But, it has been what helps. I really appreciate my friends for listening to me, also. I think in the morning, after you had a bad day. If you could just ask yourself "what if". It could make all the difference the next day, so you don't have a repeat. I learned last year in painting class to answer the question "what if" in a painting. And, it really made me think about the answer. And, how this could be something that you wish for. But, since you think usually this thing is impossible. But, when you ask yourself, "how can I make the impossible the possible". If you take action, (and deal with the rejection, maybe) slowly or sometimes quickly you can turn things around. I did this today. And, so far it is working. I was getting mad at myself, yesterday, for every little thing. All the projects unfinished, the paperwork needing attention, the clothes needing to be hung up, the chicken I bought that didn't get cooked before the sell by date. I could go on. But, I think you get it. So, this morning I changed up my routine. I got some things done. And, then started to read my emails. Believe it or not, Sunday is my favorite day for emails. I have five of my favorite artists and authors email me their substacks each week. It is very inspiring with prompts and good words of love, support and encouragement. Which brings me to the power of just one word to pick for the year. I have been doing this since 2009. My word was shine, and it ended up more about my children shining, and enjoying all the light they were bringing into my life. We also celebrated the New Year in Paris, France that year. So, last year it was Be. And, I could not ask for anything better for last year. There is never any pressure to just be. And just being ends up being a creative act. Just being open to what life brings. I really can't believe it brought me retirement. Those first four months of the year ended up being life changing for me. This year I chose radiate. And, this is like shine, but has more energy. So, I would like to put more energy into my life. And, it ends up just the opposite, as of yesterday. But, this time of year I have always felt like a bear in hibernation. And, since it is a year where the choices are up to me, I can rest, and radiate the importance of rest. You can not radiate, unless you rest. So, I rested yesterday and hope to get as much done today to feel better about it tonight.

The Seeds I Have Sown

It is not ordinary To find flowers in January. Surviving another day. Finding their way To still bloom, Even after a storm. I admire them, Then pull off a stem. I take it inside, And smile wide. They teach me a lesson On surviving on my own. I am so thankful For the seeds I have sown.

BE-Longing

I am taking a wonderful writing class (it is actually called writing sanctuary). Today was the last day. Yesterday the prompt was BE-Longing. And it gave a whole new meaning to the word belonging. One of the wonderful parts of the 2023 (my year to just be) was the FREE time. If there was a call to action, it was done in my time. What a gift this is. It gave me time to recognize my feelings. Not only recognize them, but to really feel them. This is something I have naturally not had time for. When I was very young, I would cry a lot. And, I was called a cry baby many times. As I got older I really tried hard to stuff those feelings way down. Something happened when I was pregnant with the twins. I often found it hard to cry. I don't know whether it was because I didn't have the time. I don't think it was, I just didn't feel like it. I started blogging when I was approaching the empty nest. I I was planning on how to stay busy, to help with the loss of a busy bustling household. Yesterday, I found an invitation for a Christmas Cookie swap. I looked at the date, and couldn't believe it was twenty years ago. WOW! I really started to think about the last twenty years and the joy those years brought me. But, also those parties I would also be totally exhausted. My year of being has brought me REST. And, it is the best feeling. I have longed for rest. Didn't realize it until it happened. I love when I think of when I was a child and teenager. I think of all the things I longed for. And, they came true. Appreciative is all I feel for my past. That is a huge accomplishment to feel that way, so quickly after a divorce. I can't wait for this year to put into words in book form. I am longing to go to France and embrace all of these feelings and write them down. And, I think the saying "the grass is always greener on the side" keeps coming to mind. It is one of the things my mother would say to me when I was wanting, yearning or longing as a child. I just want to spend some time in France and really feel the difference between there and New Jersey. And, then I will be satisfied with the saying "bloom where you are planted."

Free Spirit Rising

This watercolor painting was done in the Spring of 2021 after months of spending a lot of time at home. I didn't like it at the time. Now, I love it. I am looking forward to my daily painting again. It is simple, easy, enjoyable and very freeing. I am happy with 4 journals I completed in 2023. They ended up representing the seasons and what I was paying attention to. In the beginning it was a way to calm down my racing thoughts. If I was able to have access to a free meditation, I followed it with the painting. I usually always listen to my favorite music at the same time. Sometimes using the words from the songs as inspiration. But, most of all I am having fun with it. This year I look forward to seeing what it brings for me. I would also love to start writing my own short quotes to combine with it. And, share it on social media with a more cohesive look. I have quite the library of things to read and meditations each morning to get me through January. I love the quiet of January and all the hope it brings me. My biggest goal is to be the free spirit my mom wanted me to be. And, to be a free spirit I feel I have to work at it. Each step I take of courage takes away my feelings of fear, doubt and guilt. I still feel I take one step up and two steps back. But, this holiday season I was very doubtful it could be joyful for me. I proved myself wrong. It was probably the best feeling Christimas I have ever had. There was no pressure of what to do. Giving is where I have found the most joy. But, this Christmas it was mostly enjoying what others created. And, the only time I really felt stressed was picking out gifts for others. I hope to make more gifts for the future, rather then buying them. And, I really feel giving people your time and full attention is a gift these days. I truly appreciate all my friends and family for the love they showed me this holiday season. Quote of the day: "To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable." - Helen Keller Song of the day: Gypsy Stevie Nicks

Welcome 2024

I awoke yesterday with the thought of "what am I going to do today?". I was glad New Year's Eve was a Sunday. I knew my email inbox would be full of inspirations from my top five authors. I have subscribed to them on Substacks. It does become overwhelming at times. But, yesterday there was a standout post. It was from Beth Kempton. I have been following her since I had my store. She featured me once when her website compiled those who "Do What You Love". My story is out there in the cyber cloud somewhere. Currently, she is hosting a Winter Sanctuary of Writing. It started December 28th and runs until January 6th. The perfect time for letting in some light. She reads two poems, talks in a 10 minute video (I love her british accent) and then writes an essay with prompts. She's very easy going with no pressure. She read a poem "The Masterpiece" by Nikita Gill. I follow Nikita's instagram which is poems. And, she definitely resonates with me. This book that this poem is in was written during covid. It is about the 5 stages of grief and then the 5 stages of hope. I get a little discouraged when I read her writing. Because, my thoughts are along the same lines. And, I find that very intimidating. Her words flow with beauty, and sometimes sting like a bee. But, this poem I read in the morning, ended up being the day I lived yesterday. I had no idea I would be at an irish bar celebrating the end of 2023. But, it was like the poem I read in the morning. I wish I could read it somewhere. I searched all morning, but only came up with the quote I will share. But, it had to do with singing and dancing through life kinda thing. I came up with a lot of mottos last year to make my decision making a little easier. It is: If it makes you feel alive, take the dive. And, I am so glad I have made new friends, so I am not experiencing these life affirming fun times by myself. I feel like Ferris Bueler in his 60's. But, not just for one day.....I have lots of days to make the most of life, now. And, I love the thought of celebrating every day. Quote of the day: “We must remember that an ending is the start of another beautiful something, that there is always light to be had at the end of everything.” ― Nikita Gill, Where Hope Comes From: Poems of Resilience, Healing, and Light Song of the Day: "Can You Feel It?" Jackson 5